🄵🄵Here are 6 key points that can help you last longer and improve your experience with your partner..

Ā 1.Ā Master Your Breathing

When you’re too aroused, your breathing often becomes fast and shallow. That’s a signal your body is close to finishing. Instead:

  • Breathe

    slowly and deeplythrough your nose.

  • Try syncing your breath with your partner’s to stay connected and calm.

Pro tip: Practicing deep breathing outside the bedroom (like in meditation) helps you stay in control.

Ā 2.Ā Train with the Start-Stop Method

This technique involves:

  • Stimulating yourself (solo or with a partner),

  • Pausing

    just beforeclimax,

  • Waiting until the feeling reduces,

  • Then starting again.

This builds control over time and delays your finish naturally.

Ā 3.Ā Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor (Kegels)

YourĀ PC musclesĀ (pelvic floor) are responsible for ejaculation control. Strengthening them can delay climax.

Try this:

  • Squeeze the muscle you’d use to stop peeing.

  • Hold for 3–5 seconds, release.

  • Do 10–15 reps, 2–3 times a day.

Strong PC muscles = better control and stronger finish when you’re ready.

Ā 4.Ā Use the Pause & Squeeze Technique

If you feel like you’re close to finishing too soon:

  • Stop all movement.

  • Gently

    squeeze the baseof your penis (just under the head) for 5–10 seconds.

  • Wait for the urge to pass.

This can reset your arousal and give you extra minutes.

Ā 5.Ā Change Positions or Rhythm

Some positions make you finish faster. If you’re feeling overwhelmed:

  • Slow down your rhythm.

  • Switch to a position where

    you have less stimulation, like spooning or woman-on-top.

  • Focus on

    her pleasuremore than your own.

The more control you feel, the longer you’ll last.

Ā 6.Ā Use Your Mind (Mental Redirection)

Distracting your mindĀ just a littleĀ can help delay climax:

  • Think about something non-sexual (e.g., counting backward, math problems).

  • Don’t disconnect completely, but ease the intensity.

Your brain is the most powerful sex organ — learn to use it.

BONUS:Ā Talk with Your PartnerĀ 

Being open about your intentions helps reduce anxiety and pressure. A supportive partner can help you relax and improve together.