
Ā 1.Ā Master Your Breathing
When youāre too aroused, your breathing often becomes fast and shallow. Thatās a signal your body is close to finishing. Instead:
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Breathe
slowly and deeplythrough your nose.
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Try syncing your breath with your partnerās to stay connected and calm.
Pro tip: Practicing deep breathing outside the bedroom (like in meditation) helps you stay in control.
Ā 2.Ā Train with the Start-Stop Method
This technique involves:
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Stimulating yourself (solo or with a partner),
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Pausing
just beforeclimax,
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Waiting until the feeling reduces,
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Then starting again.
This builds control over time and delays your finish naturally.
Ā 3.Ā Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor (Kegels)
YourĀ PC musclesĀ (pelvic floor) are responsible for ejaculation control. Strengthening them can delay climax.
Try this:
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Squeeze the muscle youād use to stop peeing.
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Hold for 3ā5 seconds, release.
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Do 10ā15 reps, 2ā3 times a day.
Strong PC muscles = better control and stronger finish when youāre ready.
Ā 4.Ā Use the Pause & Squeeze Technique
If you feel like youāre close to finishing too soon:
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Stop all movement.
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Gently
squeeze the baseof your penis (just under the head) for 5ā10 seconds.
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Wait for the urge to pass.
This can reset your arousal and give you extra minutes.
Ā 5.Ā Change Positions or Rhythm
Some positions make you finish faster. If youāre feeling overwhelmed:
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Slow down your rhythm.
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Switch to a position where
you have less stimulation, like spooning or woman-on-top.
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Focus on
her pleasuremore than your own.
The more control you feel, the longer youāll last.
Ā 6.Ā Use Your Mind (Mental Redirection)
Distracting your mindĀ just a littleĀ can help delay climax:
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Think about something non-sexual (e.g., counting backward, math problems).
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Donāt disconnect completely, but ease the intensity.
Your brain is the most powerful sex organ ā learn to use it.
BONUS:Ā Talk with Your PartnerĀ 
Being open about your intentions helps reduce anxiety and pressure. A supportive partner can help you relax and improve together.


