
On September 13, 2025, a scene of raw anguish unfolded outside Turning Point USA’s Phoenix headquarters in Arizona, where Charlie Kirk’s grieving father, Gerry Kirk, collapsed in tears during a vigil for his slain son. The 31-year-old conservative icon, assassinated at Utah Valley University three days earlier, was remembered by hundreds who lit candles and laid flowers. Gerry’s desperate cry, “Give me back my son—he’s only 31!” pierced the night, echoing the nation’s shock at the young activist’s brutal death. Social media exploded with the video, amassing 10 million views in hours (#KirkVigil), as fans mourned a leader cut down in his prime.
Standing beside Gerry was Pete Hegseth, the newly appointed U.S. Secretary of Defense and one of Kirk’s closest allies. Hegseth, 44, gently placed a hand on Gerry’s shoulder, whispering words of strength in a moment of profound brotherhood. He often called Charlie his “little brother,” forged in the fires of cultural battles over free speech and conservative values. “Charlie was family—we fought side by side,” Hegseth said, his voice cracking, as the crowd fell silent. The image of the stoic veteran comforting a broken father has become an icon of resilience amid tragedy, shared by President Trump with the caption, “We will never forget.”