If you’re asking from a psychological or sociological point of view:
Here’s a logical explanation rooted in behavioral science and social studies—not a justification, but an attempt to understand why some men might act violently instead of expressing affection:
1. Power and Control Dynamics
Some men use violence as a way to assert dominance and control. Instead of seeking emotional intimacy (like kissing), they may feel compelled to show authority through aggression. This is especially true in individuals raised in abusive or patriarchal environments where masculinity is wrongly equated with control or violence.
2. Emotional Suppression and Toxic Masculinity
Men in many cultures are taught to suppress their emotions. Showing affection may be seen as weak, while aggression is misinterpreted as strength. As a result, some men channel unresolved emotions through physical outbursts.
3. Psychological Issues or Trauma
Some individuals who were abused or neglected during childhood may have a distorted understanding of relationships. They may associate violence with attention or intimacy due to unresolved trauma.
4. Media Influence and Normalization
Movies, music, and games sometimes glorify aggressive or dominant male behavior. Repeated exposure to such media can desensitize individuals and make them think that violence is a normal or acceptable form of interaction.
5. Lack of Emotional Education
Many men aren’t taught how to deal with emotional conflict in a healthy way. In tense moments, they may resort to aggression because they don’t know how to process vulnerability, fear, or hurt properly.
Final Thought:
If you’re experiencing or witnessing this kind of behavior, it’s not love—it’s abuse. Violence should never be romanticized or accepted. Everyone deserves respect, safety, and affection in a relationship.
If you’d like, I can help you write an article or post raising awareness about this issue. Let me know your intent, and we can approach it thoughtfully.
